When two individuals come together to start a new phase of their lives, they experience many new feelings and along with that face many difficulties and challenges. These challenges cannot be avoided but faced in a right way. So here are few tips for all the people soon to get married or who are already married to make your married life a healthy and happy one:
RESPECT
Doesn’t matter if its arrange marriage or love marriage, respect is an essential ingredient for a happy married life whether it’s respecting each other for the individuals you both are, respecting each other’s choices or respecting each other’s family and friends. Always give the same respect to your spouse’s parents you want him/ her to give your parents. It might happen that you don’t like some from his/her family or friends but don’t let that affect your relationship, just learn to adjust and respect if you want the same for your family and friends. Love can vanish but respect will never.
APPRECIATE
Appreciating is the key to make your partner feel loved and wanted. Appreciating his/ her efforts is one of the best ways to make him/her feel special even after many years if marriage. You must acknowledge the efforts your partner put in for you and your family and express gratitude for the same. For this a healthy communication between you two is essential. This way you will see a new spark in your married life.
BE RESPONSIBLE
A healthy marriage is a result of two individuals sharing responsibilities and not burdening one of you with it. These responsibilities can be financial, household, social or family. Also if you make a mistake, don’t feel embarrassed to admit it. Taking responsibility for your actions and apologizing will surely be appreciated by your spouse.
ROMANCE IS THE KEY
Romance doesn’t only means being in each other’s arms, it also includes little gestures that you can do to make your partner feel the love. Going shopping? Take your partner with you and hold his/her hand and let the world know that this man or woman belongs to you. Call them when they are at work and let them know you are missing them. Surprise dates and gifts are mandatory doesn’t matter if you got married recently or for many years.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
We know that with marriage comes lots of responsibilities be it of family or career but don’t let them take over you in such a way that you stop taking care of yourself. When you will take care of yourself, you will automatically feel happy and when you will be happy you will make your partner happy too. Don’t let your passions die. Do what you enjoy and let your partner join you too. Pamper yourself. You can even go on a spa date with your spouse. Stay fit and eat well. Let the glow of your face brighten up your married life.